Dear Self,
“Dear Self,
I see you, I feel you, I am sorry. I spent a lifetime ignoring, betraying, and draining you. I allowed the pain pattern of not feeling good enough to put you in work environments that compromised your inner truth and being. Ever since Karl told you that he was choosing the job in MD over KY because of the money and success – you have prioritized the message that success is more important than feelings and self worth. Since then, I have consistently sought out an idolized figure in your industry to use as a form of acceptance, validation, and value. Every professional that could effect your career and success I have given all your power to on a silver plate. I am sorry that I do carelessly threw away your opinion for theirs. I am sorry that I lied to you for so long thinking this was the cost of your dream. I am sorry for ignoring you when you were screaming that the body was too fatigued, that your emotions weren’t a valid reason to take time off or to take an extra day of rest. I’m sorry that I stayed silent and gave away your boundaries just to “get along”. I am sorry that I betrayed your core values and acted differently than how I felt. I am sorry that I told you that you were fine even when you weren’t. Up until now I have compromised my inner truth, from this point forward I will forge a new path for myself in this industry.”

